Posts Tagged ‘family’

Have a miscarriage . . . Go To Jail??!!??

Friday, March 5th, 2010

As many of you know, I’ve had a miscarriage.  It sucked.  It still sucks.  However, when I read articles about how Utah wants to be able to prosecute women who have miscarriages, it makes me angry.  Why?  Over 15% – 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage.  That’s just nature’s way of handling an nonviable pregnancy.

The bill responds to a case in which a Vernal woman allegedly paid a man $150 to beat her and cause miscarriage but could not be charged. The Senate approved criminalizing a woman’s “intentional, knowing, or reckless act” leading to a pregnancy’s illegal termination.  But here’s the problem — what is a knowing reckless act?  If you eat tuna and have a miscarriage, is that reckless?  If you fall down while pregnant, can you be charged (and the answer is yes because it happened in Iowa).  Writing for RH Reality Check, Rachel Larris says,

Using the legal standard of “reckless behavior” all a district attorney needs to show is that a woman behaved in a manner that is thought to cause miscarriage, even if she didn’t intend to lose the pregnancy. Drink too much alcohol and have a miscarriage? Under the new law such actions could be cause for prosecution.

That terrifies me. I was sent to the ER when I miscarried. It was a Friday night and my OBGYN wanted me to get checked out even though we both knew what was happening. Would I have went knowing that I chanced going to jail because somebody didn’t like me, the way I dress, or anything I said? Hell, no.  Heck, I had 2 different OBGYN’s for my pregnancies and both gave me different rules to follow.  If the doctor’s can’t agree, how the heck am I suppose to know if something I did caused a miscarriage.  Heck, I have an irritable uterus, so I’m most likely just screwed since my body doens’t like being pregnant and puts me into preterm labor.  I know, you are stating that they won’t go after the “good” people.  However, if you read the Iowa story, they do.

I’d love to know what you all think. Is this legislation taking it tad too far?

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Cold, Seasonal Flu & H1N1 Symptoms

Thursday, October 22nd, 2009

I got this great chart to help you decipher what sickness is going around in your house. As a mom, I am freaking out about H1N1, and this really helps to figure out what’s going on.  (That being said, always make sure you call your doctor for the proper medical care).

h1n1 chart

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Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day

Thursday, October 15th, 2009

Today is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. Having been through a loss myself and learning today that someone near and dear to us has also suffered this loss, please keep in your thoughts and prayers today all of us who are part of this “club”. It’s not something we wanted, something we asked for, and most of the time, it’s the worst day of our lives.

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Out of the mouth of babes

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

I was cutting open a clamshell plastic wrapper for some triple A batteries last night (that I had to run out and get).  Madison’s Leapster2 had gone dead, and she was whining.  Instead of paying attention to what I was doing, I was talking and looking at her when I did it.  I cut a nice little V in my thumb with blood squirting everywhere.  Madison’s response?

Mom, that’s why I have safety scissors.

Obviously, mom needs a pair too.  Sigh.

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I’m leaving on Jet Plane. . .

Sunday, August 30th, 2009

To General Mills.  In a couple of hours.  Seriously.  Though I do know when I’ll be back again (Monday night!).

I’m excited.  We are a General Mills family.  I should take a picture of all the cereal we have at my house at any given time.  It’s amazing.  Okay, not so amazing since I buy it when it’s on sale or when I have coupons and then I stock up.  However, I am looking forward to seeing my blogger friends.  Here’s a list of all the wonderful ladies I’ll be there with:

If you want to follow this trip with me, the Twitter hashtag for the event is #tabletalk.

Let me honest though, I am slightly worried.  As many of you may remember, when I went to Stouffers in April, I came home to Will being taken by ambulance to the hospital.  I pray that doesn’t happen again.  I know, I know — It was a freak thing and my head knows that.  It’s just everything else that doesn’t seem to get that.  However, I did go to BlogHer, and he was fine, so this isn’t my first event out.

Now, I have to go pack and take a shower (I know, I know, TMI).  Have a great weekend, and I’ll see you all when I get back!

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