So this week isn't going to be so Wordless. If you read here regularly, then you will know that last week I attended the funeral for my cousin in Wisconsin. He was only 31 years old. He had Cystic Fibrosis. When he was born, we were told that he'd only live into his 20s. Well, he lived to be 31 years old. We always knew this day would come. However, when it did, we all realized we weren't ready. Though Matthew had another surprise for us all. Without telling anyone, he signed up to be an organ and tissue donor. Cystic Fibrosis ravaged a lot of his organs, but he was able to donate tissue, skin, and bone to others in need. I think they said he was able to donate 42 out of 49 things they look for. Even in death, he was able to help others!
Last week, I can easily admit, was one of the hardest. I was asked to speak at the wake, so I compartmentalized everything I was feeling and got up and told a funny story about Matthew. I did make about a hundred people laugh, so I think my job was done. 🙂
Matthew wanted to get a tattoo that said Defy All Odds. However, his doctors wouldn't allow it. One of my other cousins decided that we should get the tattoo for him. After the wake and funeral, we went to the tattoo parlor.
Yes, that's my leg. Here's what we got:
For those who don't know, that's the Cystic Fibrosis Rose (Since Cystic Fibrosis is hard to say, they often times tell kids to call it 65 Roses. Hence, the rose). Then we got the “defy the odds” like Matthew wanted.
What a lovely tribute it looks good too
Thanks for sharing
It’s so sad when someone dies so young. Sounds like he was a good, caring person.
I am so sorry about your cousin. My husband was a respiratory therapist and he worked with CF patients. Your tribute is awesome and I am sure he would be pleased. Blessings to you,
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It looks beautiful! I always wanted a tattoo and thought about getting either a little rose or a butterfly.
What a beautiful tribute. I bet he would have loved it!
I often question my own mortality when I attend a funeral. It is almost like you can re-commit to your own life and try to live it better; for me anyway. I loved reading this.
That’s so sad! I’m glad you got the tattoo. God bless.
What a lovely tribute. Sorry for your loss.
I am sorry for your loss. That is a lovely tribute to your cousin Matthew. It looks very classy too! Love it!
Sorry to hear about your lose, the rose looks good
Sorry for your loss. One is never ready to let go no matter how long one knows it’s coming.
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Love that, it’s beautiful!
that’s a sweet thing to do to keep the memory of your cousin alive 🙂
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The artist did a great job with it. I’m sorry you’ve lost someone you loved so early. Hurrah for his kind heart and strong spirit, both of which were evident from your post.
This is a very nice tribute and it look great.
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What a wonderful way to pay tribute to your cousin! I’m so sorry about what you’re going through right now. I’m glad you’ll have this reminder of him with you all the time!! Hugs.
That is a lovely tribute to him.
What an amazing tribute! And even more amazing that some of his tissue and sin were able to save other’s lives. So sorry for your loss.
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How beautiful I love the tattoo and it will always hold such a special memory.
What a special way to honor him!
This made me cry. What a loving tribute. Once again, I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your tattoo is a beautiful tribute!
What a beautiful tribute. I am so sorry for your loss.
What a beautiful tribute to your cousin hun.
I know I already said it, but I’m so sorry again for your loss. I think it’s cool that you got a tattoo in his honor.
A lovely tribute. Also, I can really relate to your experience about telling a funny story at the wake. I did that same thing at my Grandfather’s funeral. It was a strange feeling to be able to tell a funny story in front of a big crowd, and for two minutes, be completely removed from the sad situation.
Such a sweet tribute. I would love to get one for my parents.. I just get so scared of needles.
Aww, that is so, so touching. The tattoo is beautiful & I hope it helps you a bit during this rough time.
What a sweet, thoughtful tribute!
Thats a great tribute!
Such a thoughtful tribute!
What a beautiful tribute to your cousin.
Beautiful tribute to your brave and generous cousin.
What a super sweet tribute!
What a beautiful tribute!
You have brought tears to my eyes with this post. That is such a beautiful tribute to your cousin. I am so sorry for your loss.
What a wonderful tribute!!
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, but what a giving and caring person your cousin must have been to sign up as a donor. I think your tattoo is a beautiful tribute to him!